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    June 13

    Congratulations Chaz Bono!!

     
    and remember to send your support.
     
    -Dana
    October 24

    Talking about LA Observed: Mike Penner returns to Los Angeles Times

     

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    LA Observed: Mike Penner returns to Los Angeles Times
    Mike Penner returns to Los Angeles TimesKevin Roderick • Bio • EmailEighteen month after writing a column about becoming Christine Daniels, veteran sportswriter Mike Penner has quietly returned to work at the Los Angeles Times, according to multiple sources close to the LAT's Sports staff. Penner's column in April 2007 about his sexual transformation became one of the most-viewed Times' stories of the year and was followed by a story in the LAT from media writer James Rainey and tons of other media attention. Daniels for a time chronicled her transformation in a blog at LATimes.com; the blog entries have been removed and the Times has so far posted nothing about Penner's return. I emailed him and Sports Editor Randy Harvey, who replied, "We're looking forward to Mike's byline appearing in the paper and on the website with increased frequency. He continues to be a valued member of our sports staff."
    September 28

    Talking about Memorial dedicated to slain gay student  - Crime & courts- msnbc.com

    Memorial dedicated to slain gay student  - Crime & courts- msnbc.com
    LARAMIE, Wyo. - The nation — and the city of Laramie — has become more accepting of gays and lesbians in the 10 years since a gay University of Wyoming student was beaten, lashed to a lonely fence and left to die, his mother said Saturday."We've learned a lot, we've talked a lot; we do it in public forums now," Judy Shepard said at a ceremony dedicating a bench to her son, Matthew Shepard. "So it's a wonderful tribute to Matt that these kinds of things are discussed."Shepard died Oct. 12, 1998, five days after he was found brutally beaten and tied to the fence outside Laramie. The two men who killed him are serving life sentences in prison.

    August 03

    Time to Remind

     

    Time to Remind

     
    May 24

    Going home again

    I read this brief but powerful article which has a heartfelt focus on survival in the face of adversity. . .
     
    DANIELLE KING
    Friday, May 23, 2008
    May 11

    Heads up and Happy Mother's Day

    Megan Wallent's interview will air tonight at 8:00 on the Radical Trannies - Tune in to Ethan and Megan discussing her transition, life and other cool stuff.
     
    Here's the link...
     
     
    Happy Mother's Day!
     
    -Dana
    April 10

    Focus on Positive Change

    As I read this extremely moving memorial about Bill Clayton a bisexual teen who passed back in 1995, I was reminded that we still have such a tremendous journey ahead of us before we are safe from hatred and predjudice.
     
    Focus your efforts on possitive change. 
     
    Support equality and eliminate hatred through positive example.
     
    Can we wait any longer?
     
    -Dana
    March 08

    7 Things Never to Say to LGBT Coworkers

     
    By Daryl Hannah. Date Posted: March 07, 2008
     
    For most, coming out at work is not an easy task. You can't be sure
    how your company or peers will respond to your revelation. And despite
    recent reports that the workplace is growing increasingly accepting to
    LGBT employees, people often don't know how to welcome a colleague who
    recently came out the closet.
    PricewaterhouseCoopers executive Stephanie Peel's history is a
    corporate America coming-out success story. When she came out
    professionally nearly 10 years ago, she was welcomed by her
    colleagues. "I came out personally in 1997 and came out professionally
    in 1999. Fortunately, I never heard anything not positive," says Peel.
    Peel now serves on the company's LGBT-partner advisory board, which
    consists of 10--12 leaders in the firm who are LGBT, and provides
    guidance to the management committee to help further advance
    initiatives and activities. PricewaterhouseCoopers is No. 12 on The
    2007 DiversityInc Top 50 Companies for Diversity(R) list and No. 2 on
    the Top 10 Companies for GLBT Employees.
    "I often tell people who ask me about this [that] it's not just about
    what you can't say or shouldn't say because sometimes I find that
    colleagues feel stymied in that they shouldn't say anything at all.
    There is a lot of room for the things you can say to give clues to
    people that you are inclusive and culturally sensitive," warns Peel.
    So what are 10 things should you NEVER say to your LGBT colleagues?
    Here's what GLSEN (the Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network),
    Out & Equal Workplace Project, and Peel suggest:
    No. 1: "I suspected you were gay."
    Although it is a common response, it's insensitive and plays into stereotypes.
    No. 2: "I'm sorry."
    Why should you apologize for a colleague's orientation? This implies
    judgment and can make the situation more difficult. Would you
    apologize for a person's ethnicity or gender?
    No. 3: "Why did you tell me that?"
    It's important for people to bring their "whole selves" to work, and
    coming out of the closet is certainly a part of who one is. "The
    notion of leaving a big part of your self at home and walking into
    work is like walking around with two types of shoes on," says Selisse
    Berry executive director of Out & Equal, an advocacy organization that
    provides services to companies, human-resource professionals,
    employee-resource groups and individuals.
    No. 4: "Which bathroom do you use?"
    Transgender people often are asked what gender they are. Such
    questions are inappropriate, warns Out & Equal. It is important to
    remember that gender identity is becoming an increasingly sensitive
    subject.
    No. 5: "We are not close enough for you to share that information with me."
    Not all employees are interested in their coworker's personal lives.
    If you feel a colleague may have shared too much information, you can
    simply say, "Thank you for telling me that," says Peel.
    No. 6: Referring to coworkers as "she-male."
    There has been a lot of uproar these days over this phrase.
    Transgender employees often are the brunt of culturally insensitive
    jokes and comments.
    No. 7: "What do you like to do in bed?"
    Sexual questions and comments are always off-limits. Not only do you
    run the risk of offending a colleague, you are also teetering the line
    of sexual harassment. It's important not to be confused between trying
    to understand someone's personal life and inappropriate sexual
    harassment, warns Kevin Jennings, executive director of GLSEN.
    (c) DiversityInc 2008 (R) All rights reserved.

    The Many Faces Of Mara Keisling: The Death of United ENDA?

    by Marti Abernathey | March 7, 2008
     
     
    Is one of the key players in the United ENDA movement, Mara Keisling,
    signaling its death? Recently Keisling said:
    'We have to show Barney Frank 220 votes,' she said. 'If we show
    him 220 votes, nobody is going to work harder on this. The same with
    HRC… It's going to happen again next year. '- After ENDA, the
    Fighter's Resilient
    According to Donna Rose's blog :
    3/1/2008 - They're currently planning to hold hearings in Congress
    specifically about transgender workplace issues in April. Whereas
    original plans were to tightly control those hearings, Rep. Frank has
    largely turned over control of gathering the stories to NCTE/Mara
    Keisling (who's home in DC with pneumonia). Mara has been diligently
    working with many of us to identify potential speakers who can come to
    Washington DC to speak and I expect she'll be finalizing that to give
    to Barney shortly.
    Frank later emailed Rose and said:
    3/5/2007 - "…at the request of Mara Keisling, I agreed to meet
    with her to discuss the hearing. In fact, my office has met with
    several groups for input, but Ms. Rose's assertion that I "largely
    turned over control of gathering the stories to NCTE/Mara Keisling" is
    wholly baseless. In fact, the Committee on Education and Workforce has
    jurisdiction over this bill and therefore, the "control" was never
    mine to turn over. And while the blog referenced NCTE, the fact is,
    several groups have been working to identify potential witnesses –in
    fact, the ultimate decision about who is ultimately selected rests
    with subcommittee Chairman Rob Andrews and full committee Chairman
    George Miller, after consulting with me.
    On a later entry, Rose said:
    During our conversation today HRC came up several times. Joe (Racalto,
    Barney Frank's senior policy adviser) went out of his way to
    assure me that HRC is taking the lead in these hearings in many ways.
    As far as our community is concerned I'll take his word for it and let
    it all unfold….
    It's interesting to timeline Keisling's comments about the Human
    Rights Campaign (HRC):
    05/23/2007
    (concerning the Matthew Shepard Act)
    The Human Rights Campaign (HRC) did an incredibly skillful and
    professional job as a lead organization on lobbying for the bill.Their
    work and efforts were absolutely everything that any LGBT person could
    hope for–they really did ALL LGBT people proud. And they as
    individuals and as an organization are putting their hearts into
    transgender work and we should be very appreciative. - (posted to TGv
    Advocacy)
    In that same post she said about ENDA:
    Our Allies: Years ago, we didn't have too many. We had to educate
    and, yes, fight our way back into the LGBT movement. I know there are
    still imperfections and I know that some trans people are still
    skeptical. Yet, I can tell you without hesitation that the entire
    organized LGBT movement is with us now. Our education worked. Our
    indignation worked. It is our moral responsibility now to embrace the
    people we asked and demanded to be our allies. If we do not believe in
    education, in persuasion, in redemption, we have
    no right being in civil rights. Why educate if not to win over?
    Why win over if not to embrace and move forward together? HRC really
    is an LGBT organization now and getting a lot of great work done for
    us all. Congressman Frank and Senator Kennedy too. Let's move on
    together. - (posted to TGv Advocacy)
    7/1/2007
    (concerning protesting)
    Anyone (and again I am not saying you are suggesting this) who
    would still hope to positively impact ENDA or LLEHCCPA by protesting
    allies who are really getting the job done for and with us–allies like
    HRC, Rep. Frank and Sen.Kennedy–in my opinion, simply would not be
    seeing or else not understanding what is going on. - (posted to TGv
    Advocacy)
    10/10/2007
    We consider this action a kind of 'family intervention'. We
    believe that HRC is misguided in their response and lack of action on
    the ENDA legislation. While we appreciate the support that HRC has
    given us in the transgender community, we are disappointed with HRC at
    the moment, - Transgender Activists Protest HRC Dinner
    10/13/2007
    (concerning HRC's "brokering" of the inclusive ENDA [2015] putting it
    off to be heard in the future "when it has the votes to pass.")
    HRC's 'new deal' is entirely spin meant to undermine the
    unprecedented grassroots efforts of hundreds of organizations and tens
    of thousands of individuals in order to allow movement of their vanity
    bill that no one including Speaker Pelosi or Congressman Frank says
    they really want. - NCTE's Daily Update
    01/24/2008
    'Our official position right now is we are extremely disappointed
    and angry at HRC. … The real bottom line is right now NCTE will not do
    anything that will rehabilitate HRC as a legitimate spokesman for
    transgender people … until they stop actively hurting trans people',
    said Keisling. She characterized HRC's advocacy of the sexual
    orientation-only version of ENDA in the House, as well as its expected
    lobbying to pass the bill this year in the Senate, as hurting trans
    people.
    As for NCTE's future plans for ENDA, Keisling said that after the
    election she expects advocates to lobby a new Congress and a new
    president in favor of passing a trans-inclusive ENDA bill.
    'It is our expectation that in 2009 Congress is going to hear from
    a very united LGBT movement,' said Keisling. 'Whether that includes
    HRC I have no idea.' - Trans-HRC schism widens
    3/5/2008
    'We have to show Barney Frank 220 votes,' she said. 'If we show
    him 220 votes, nobody is going to work harder on this. The same with
    HRC… It's going to happen again next year.' - After ENDA, the
    Fighter's Resilient
    As recent as yesterday, HRC was lobbying for a non-inclusive ENDA.
    In an email from Cuc Vu to the HRC Steering Committee, she writes:
    Lobby ask:continue to build support in the House for HR 2015;
    request the Senate to take action to prohibit workplace
    discrimination.
    Since the non-inclusive bill (3685) has already passed the House,
    asking the Senate to take action to prohibit workplace discrimination
    is asking them to support 3685. Essentially it's business as usual for
    HRC. Nothing has substantially changed in their lobbying efforts.
    They've had no "rehabilitative" moment or change of heart. If you take
    Keisling's words to heart, the only other conclusion that seems
    logical is that United ENDA is dead.
    March 01

    Tuesday, March 4th: Transgender Rights Hearing

    Here's an essential public hearing everyone should know about in terms
    of making sure Massachusetts is a state that truly stands for civil
    rights for all.
    Transgender rights activists are preparing to state their case for
    legislation that would protect transgender people from discrimination
    and hate crimes as a bill moves through the State House.
    The bill, scheduled for public hearing March 4, follows the model
    of 13 other states that have legislation specifically protecting the
    civil rights and safety of transsexuals, said Daniel Glasser, aide to
    Rep. Carl Sciortino, a Medford Democrat who sponsored the bill.
    The transgender rights bill is the first piece of statewide
    legislation to address transgender rights, though some Massachusetts
    towns and counties have ratified similar anti-discrimination laws,
    Glasser said.
    Rep. Byron Rushing, who introduced the bill with Sciortino in Jan.
    2007, said it is important for Massachusetts to explicitly include
    transgender people in the state's anti-discrimination laws.
    "Transgender people represent a category of people who have been
    discriminated against, but are not always covered by the existing
    discrimination laws," he said. "This bill is a way to make sure
    Massachusetts maintains its record of consistently protecting people
    who are victims of discrimination."
    Unfortunately, since the election I'm working on is actually on
    Tuesday, I won't be able to attend this - but it's imperative the bill
    passes, so I urge everyone to a) call their state reps and senators
    and b) if you can, show up to the hearing, which is public and likely
    open for public comment. Mass Resistance and their folks will very
    likely be at this event, so it's important that we show a strong show
    of force so our elected leaders know this is an issue that
    Massachusetts citizens care about deeply. It's very important that, in
    Massachusetts, no one is left behind.
     
    February 25

    Clinton and Obama Speak About Lawrence King

    We were anxiously hoping they would do so, and today they did. Hillary
    Clinton and Barack Obama have released statements regarding hate-crime
    slain Lawrence King. King was murdered in his Oxnard junior high
    classroom for being openly gay. All of the country has been outraged
    over the incident, and the two Democratic presidential candidates have
    finally spoken about the atrocity.
     
    From Senator Hillary Clinton:
    "I was deeply saddened by the recent death of 15-year-old Lawrence
    King who was killed at his school in Oxnard, CA. No one should face
    intimidation or violence, particularly at school, because of their
    sexual orientation or the way they express their gender identity. We
    must finally enact a federal hate crimes law to ensure that gay,
    lesbian and transgender Americans are protected against violent,
    bias-motivated crimes. We must send a unified message that hate-based
    crime will not be tolerated."
     
    From Senator Barack Obama:
    "It was heartbreaking to learn about Lawrence King's death, and my
    thoughts and prayers go out to his family. King's senseless death is a
    tragic example of the corrosive effect that bigotry and fear can have
    in our society. It's also an urgent reminder that we need to do more
    in our schools to foster tolerance and an acceptance of diversity;
    that we must enact a federal hate crimes law that protects all LGBT
    Americans; and that we must recommit ourselves to becoming active and
    engaged parents, citizens and neighbors, so that bias and bigotry
    cannot take hold in the first place. We all have a responsibility to
    help this nation live up to its founding promise of equality for all."
     
    "Equality for all," unless, as Queerty.com points out, you are talking
    about marriage rights....
    February 22

    Transgender law at risk

    Petition may send Montgomery County measure to referendum
     
    Source: Equality Maryland
     
    by Rona Marech
    Thursday, February 21, 2008

    A Montgomery County measure intended to protect transgender people
    appears headed to a voter referendum, setting up a potentially
    divisive debate over how far anti-discrimination laws should extend.
    The recently passed law protects transgender people from
    discrimination in housing, employment, public accommodations, and
    taxi and cable service, and was supposed to go into effect
    yesterday. But it is on hold after opponents gathered 32,000
    signatures in a bid to put it on the ballot this fall.
    Citizens for a Responsible Government, the group that paid for
    thousands of computerized calls to county households to further the
    petition drive, says the measure infringes on the privacy of most
    citizens while protecting just a few.
    "Our primary objection is the impact this has on every other citizen
    in Montgomery County," said Michelle Turner, a spokeswoman for the
    group. "This legislation affects or was written for less than 1
    percent of the population, with total disrespect for the safety,
    well-being and rights of everyone else." Public restrooms, for
    example, will no longer offer real privacy for each gender, the
    group says.
    But officials say the new law, which the County Council passed
    unanimously and County Executive Isiah Leggett signed, does not
    force changes at public restrooms. Furthermore, they say the
    bathroom issue is an old scare tactic that unfairly takes attention
    away from the measure's point: to protect people whose internal
    sense of gender and biological gender at birth do not match.
    "Have you ever heard of this being a problem anywhere? No, because
    transgender people are going to use the bathroom where they're going
    to be the safest and where they're going to blend in the most.
    They're used to being subjected to discrimination and violence. And
    they have no interest in making other people uncomfortable," said
    Dan Furmansky, director of Equality Maryland. "It's a common-sense
    bill about helping people live their lives."
    Once viewed as a relatively straightforward matter of biological
    category, gender has evolved into a far more complicated subject.
    Transgender is an umbrella term that can include transsexuals as
    well as people with a fluid identity that transcends traditional
    gender categories.
    Montgomery County and Baltimore City are among about 95
    jurisdictions and 13 states that have passed laws protecting
    transgender people, and the General Assembly has considered
    extending the protections across Maryland.
    Such a state bill failed by one vote in a Senate committee last
    year; the Maryland Commission on Human Relations is working to
    introduce a similar bill this year, Furmansky said.
    Since last spring, three states have passed transgender anti-bias
    laws, and Gov. Martin O'Malley has issued an executive order that
    protects state employees from discrimination based on gender
    identity and expression.
    In 2002, when O'Malley was Baltimore's mayor, the City Council
    unanimously passed its own version of a transgender anti-bias law.
    About a dozen people have filed complaints with the Baltimore
    Community Relations Commission since then, according to commission
    director Alvin O. Gillard, but the bathroom problems that Montgomery
    County critics have forecasted have not come to pass.
    "If you're committed to fairness and equality, you can find a way to
    accommodate everyone and protect their privacy," Gillard said. "It's
    disappointing to know that you're refighting battles that you
    thought that you'd already won."
    Last year, the House of Representatives approved a bill barring
    discrimination against workers based on sexual orientation, but
    backers removed a provision covering transgender persons to help
    pass the measure.
    New York and San Francisco are among the cities that have adopted
    such protections for transgender persons, and students at some
    colleges have pushed successfully for gender-neutral restrooms that
    do not have urinals.
    The Montgomery County Council removed more explicit wording
    addressing the issue.
    The law now reads that the requirements do "not apply to
    accommodations that are distinctly private or personal."
    Turner says the language addressing access to restrooms or locker
    rooms is too vague, but Patrick Lacefield, a Leggett spokesman,
    disagreed. In the county's view, the bill provides an adequate
    exemption that would allow businesses or other entities to restrict
    the use of facilities, he said.
    To spur interest in a referendum, the group sent messages to most
    Montgomery County homes in recent days, said Turner, an effort that
    cost more than $10,000. They need 25,000 signatures -- a goal that
    appears within reach based on the percentage of signatures that have
    been certified.
    The measure's sponsor, County Council member Duchy Trachtenberg,
    said she is "disappointed" by the opponents' campaign.
    "I think it's really unfortunate that a campaign of misinformation
    and bigotry has found its way into this wonderful community and
    county," she said. Jim Morris of Kensington helped collect the
    signatures.
    "It's basic common sense," Morris said. "I wouldn't want a guy
    dressed as a woman in the same bathroom as my daughter. That's not
    so much to ask."
    But people such as Maryann Arnow, a transgender woman who lives in
    Germantown, sees such rhetoric as inflammatory.
    "The scary part to me is there is no current federal or state
    legislation that provides people like myself any recourse
    whatsoever," she said. If the measure is overturned, she added, "it
    has the possibility to continue to make things more difficult for
    people like myself."
     
    December 20

    Does the Christmas Season depress you?

     
    Hi all,
     
    Dana here; does the Christmas season depress you? 
     
    If it does, then you're not alone.  Many of us feel the blues this time of year and it's OK. 
     
    As for me, Christmas is a season of mixed emotions.  The excitement that my daughter displays as the jolly bearded wonder's visit approaches is powerful enough to heal the deepest wounds, yet it is also a time of deep reflection for me.  I've been told time and again that I'm way too introspective.  Both personally and professionally, I really think being a transgender and all the associative years of "living in my head" is likely to blame for this. 
     
    Either way, that's where I am tonight.
     
    When I was younger... much younger actually, Christmas was a wondrous time for forward thinking.  I am, unfortunately, one of those folks who can pretty easily recall not only memories of days long gone but also minutest emotional details that often are much better left to disintegrate gracefully with time. 
     
    During these earlier Christmas's I would silently ponder those questions that I think we all asked ourselves...
     
    What will I be when I grow up? 
     
    Where will my life bring me? 
     
    Am I truly able to become anything I want?
     
    I remember the years past where those questions where answered with such unrealistic enthusiasm.  I remember the years when the answers contained little hope for any future at all.  Somehow, I made it through all of these times.  And I'm glad I did.  I also remember the more recent times when the fears of my approaching challenge had me fast frozen.  Coming to the agreement with ourselves that we are "what we are" I feel is perhaps the most important revelations that we can have.  I know I spent years hoping that I would be able to evade those challenges...
     
    Living here, on the other side of transition, I feel somewhat "aged".  And if anyone glances back up at my photo and agrees with me, well I'll get even; trust me!  Seriously, somewhere over the years and throughout transition my perspective changed.  I no longer seem to look to the future with a predictive disposition but  rather a retrospective one.  I try to make sense of it's direction and their intermediate destinations. 
     
    This year, I am hopeful and perhaps with any luck this will become a persistent trend.
     
    I'll ask this question of you again...  Does the Christmas season depress you? 
     
    Write me if you'd like to chat, no-one should feel alone during the holidays.
     
    Love always,
    Dana
    November 18

    Those who cannot remember the past are doomed to repeat it

    The Transgender Day of Remembrance is intended to raise public awareness of hate crimes against transgender people, an action that current media doesn't perform. Transgender Day of Remembrance was set aside to memorialize those who were killed due to anti-transgender hatred or prejudice (trans-phobia).  Day of Remembrance publicly mourns and honors the lives of transgender people who might otherwise be forgotten. Through this vigil, we express love and respect in the face of national indifference and hatred.  Day of Remembrance gives transgender people and their allies a chance to step forward and stand in vigil, memorializing those who have died by anti-transgender violence.

    The event was founded by Gwendolyn Ann Smith, to honor Rita Hester, whose murder in 1998 kicked off the "Remembering Our Dead" web project and a San Francisco, California candlelight vigil in 1999.  Since then, the event has grown to encompass memorials in hundreds of cities around the world.

    Rita Hester's murder — like most anti-transgender murder cases — has yet to be solved.

    Although not every person represented during the Day of Remembrance self-identified as transgender, each was a victim of violence based on bias or prejudice against transgender people. The list of deaths which is posted on this site only contains those deaths known to the transgender community or that have been reported to the media.

    I would like to remind my trans brothers and sisters that this year's event is being held at the Arlington Church in Boston at 7:00pm.  I hope to see you there! 

    On a personal note:  This year, I will be lighting a candle in remembrance of and speaking out for a friend of mine who took her own life after being attacked and brutally beaten while out with a gay/lesbian support group.

    -Dana

     

    October 26

    ENDA Bill sans Equality Passes E & L Committee

    The House Education and Labor Committee passed a version of the
    Employment Non-Discrimination Act ( ENDA ) that protects only sexual
    orientation and not gender identity on Oct. 18. The full House is
    expected to take up the measure this week.

    The bill passed the committee with the support of 23 of 27 Democrats
    and 4 of 22 Republicans. The Democrats voting "no" did so because it
    did not include protection for transgender persons. They were Rush
    Holt ( New Jersey ) , Yvette Clarke ( New York ) , Linda Sanchez (
    California ) and presidential candidate Dennis Kucinich ( Ohio ) .

    Social conservatives on the committee offered four amendments to
    further weaken the bill, but they went nowhere.

    Earlier in the week, on Oct. 16, the only open lesbian in the House,
    Tammy Baldwin, D-Wis., announced that the Democratic leadership would
    allow her to offer an amendment on the floor that would restore the
    gender identity provision.

    "I have never wavered from my conviction that the Employment
    Non-Discrimination Act must include protections base on sexual
    orientation and gender identity," Baldwin said in a statement released
    by her office.

    "We are greatly disappointed that the committee chose to move forward
    with a bill that is not endorsed by a single LGBT organization," said
    Mara Keisling, executive director of the National Center for
    Transgender Equality. "It is historically unprecedented that Congress
    would pass a civil rights bill that the civil rights
    community€  ’·including those it is meant to protect€  ’·does not want."

    "This process has put members [ of Congress ] in the position where
    they think they might have to vote against the first piece of pro-gay
    rights legislation ever. That's the tragedy of this situation." said
    Matt Foreman, executive director of the National Gay and Lesbian Task
    Force, in an interview with CBS News on Logo.

    "We oppose this legislation; we hope it never comes up for a vote
    without transgender inclusion," he continued. "We are putting our
    allies in a situation; we should not be here. The answer is either
    yank the bill or pass an inclusive bill."

    "Two weeks ago, our community was told that gender identity would not
    be included in any version of ENDA. Congressional leadership expected
    our community to acquiesce," United ENDA said in a news release. The
    coalition of about 300 national, state, and local LGBT groups had come
    together as a result of that attempted fiat by the Democratic
    leadership. "It is because of our unprecedented efforts that new
    options, such as the proposed amendments by Rep. Baldwin are able to
    come before Congress."

    "Now our community must focus our full attention on the upcoming floor
    vote on ENDA and building support for Rep. Tammy Baldwin's amendment
    that would make this bill fully inclusive of the entire GLBT
    community," said Joe Solmonese, president of the Human Rights
    Campaign.

    National Stonewall Democrats Executive Director Jon Hoadley said, "We
    appreciate that Congressional leaders like Congresswoman Baldwin
    continue to share our commitment to pass an inclusive bill, and we
    expect Speaker Pelosi and the House leadership will actively support
    the Baldwin amendment."

    Foreman said the Senate is not going to pass the bill this year, and
    George Bush is not going to sign it. "We've put our community through
    this wrenching, divisive debate over the last three weeks for an
    absolutely nothing but a symbolic vote."

    http://www.windycitymediagroup.com/gay/lesbian/news/ARTICLE.php?AID=16427
    October 24

    Will ENDA be Vetoed?

    Of Course!
     
    In its first statement on the Employment Non-Discrimination Act
    which would protect gays and lesbians in the workforce the White House said
    Tuesday the bill is likely unconstitutional and that if it passes in
    Congress the president's senior aides would recommend vetoing it.
    "[The bill] is inconsistent with the right to the free exercise of religion
    as codified by Congress in the Religious Freedom Restoration Act (RFRA),"
    the White House said in a statement.
    The House is expected to vote on ENDA, along with an amendment that would
    extend protections to include gender identity on Wednesday.
    The White House raised what it called two examples of how ENDA would violate
    the Religious Freedom Restoration Act.
    "For instance, schools that are owned by or directed toward a particular
    religion are exempted by the bill; but those that emphasize religious
    principles broadly will find their religious liberties burdened by H.R.
    3685. A second concern is H.R. 3685's authorization of Federal civil damage
    actions against State entities, which may violate States' immunity under the
    Eleventh Amendment to the U.S. Constitution."
    The administration also said that ENDA was result in unnecessary litigation.
    For instance, the bill establishes liability for acting on "perceived"
    sexual orientation, or "association" with individuals of a particular sexual
    orientation. If passed, H.R. 3685 is virtually certain to encourage
    burdensome litigation beyond the cases that the bill is intended to reach."
    In addition the White House said that provisions of ENDA "give Federal
    statutory significance to same-sex marriage rights under State law. These
    provisions conflict with the Defense of Marriage Act, which defines marriage
    as the legal union between one man and one woman. The Administration
    strongly opposes any attempt to weaken this law, which is vital to defending
    the sanctity of marriage."
    The threatened veto is the latest in a series of problems ENDA has
    encountered.
    It originally included all members of the LGBT community, but the bill's
    author, Rep. Barney Frank (D-Mass) removed gender identity fearing the
    legislation might not get out of committee.
    The move angered most LGBT rights groups, many of whom accused Frank of
    selling out transsexuals.
    Nevertheless, the revised bill passed the House Education and Labor
    Committee last week on a 27 - 21 vote.
    (story)<http://365gay.com/Newscon07/10/101807enda.htm>Several
    committee Democrats, including presidential candidate Dennis
    Kucinich refused to support the measure without the inclusion of protections
    for trans people.
    Following the vote Rep. Tammy Baldwin (D-WI) proposed an amendment that
    would reinstate gender identity and secured the support of House leadership
    to introduce it Wednesday when ENDA reaches the floor.
    (story<http://365gay.com/Newscon07/10/101707enda.htm>
    )
    Frank and Baldwin are the only two out members of Congress.
    Friday, Frank announced he would support the amendment and said he would
    lobby for its passage. (story<http://365gay.com/Newscon07/10/101907frank.htm>
    )
    ENDA, as currently worded, would make it illegal for employers to
    discriminate on the basis of sexual orientation in hiring, firing, promoting
    or paying an employee.
    There are, however, some notable exceptions. It does not cover small
    businesses, churches and the uniformed members of the armed forces.
    The White House concerns suggest that ENDA could be used against faith-based
    agencies and to seek domestic partner benefits from employers.
    The threatened veto is the second against LGBT legislation before Congress.
    The other is the Matthew Shepard Hate Crime Act.
    That legislation has passed the House. The Senate version passed as an
    amendment to a military spending bill. The two versions are now in
    conference.
    October 22

    !!Urgent Call to all Humans!!

    URGENT – IN LESS THAN 48 HOURS CONGRESS WILL HAVE THE OPPORTUNITY TO ADD PROTECTIONS FOR TRANSGENDER WORKERS IN THE FINAL ENDA.

     

    TELL REP. McDermott TO SUPPORT THE BALDWIN AMENDMENT!


    I need your help in the next 48 hours.

    Congress will vote Wednesday on H.R. 3685, the Employment Non-Discrimination Act (ENDA).

    Representative Tammy Baldwin (D-WI) plans to offer an amendment to ENDA to add protections based on gender identity.

    This amendment is crucial! This is our last chance to get gender identity back into the bill. We need your help right away to make sure your representative supports the amendment. We've called and emailed, but now we're sending faxes to show we mean business.

    Send an automatic fax to Rep. McDermott in support of the Baldwin amendment to ENDA, to make sure gender identity is included in the bill.

    There is not a moment to spare – this is your last chance to speak out on behalf of each and every member of the GLBT community.

    Once you've taken action, please forward this message to your friends and family to help us get the word out.

    This is a historic vote. For the first time ever, the House of Representatives is poised to vote on employment protections for the GLBT community. Help us make sure every member of the GLBT community is included in those protections.

    Fax your representative to support the Baldwin amendment, before the vote happens, and go to HRC.org to follow ENDA's progress through the House this week!

    Thank you for all that you do.

    Warmly,
    Joe Solmonese
    Joe Solmonese
    President

    October 21

    Day of Remembrance

    As many of us are likely aware, Monday, November 20th is the Transgender Day of Remembrance.  I believe this is the 9th anniversary of this event and I was wondering if anyone who reads my blog has attended one of these?
     
    For those who have never heard of this event, it's a time to gather together and remember our transgender brothers and sisters who have been killed by acts of violence. 
    In the years I've been attending, there is normally a candlelight reading of the list of homicide victims, and often some indication as to the official classification of the crime.
     

    Here is a partial list which I will update with 2007's victims as I find the time...

    As always, our gratitude goes to Gwen Smith for her herculean efforts!!

    Edna Brown
    Tyra Hunter
    Huriell Lockett (David King)
    Unknown New York City, 1972
    Rhonda Star (Ronnie Dean Lyles)
    Cynthia Coffman
    Felicia Coffman
    Harvey Aberles
    Unknown Atlanta, 10/29/91
    Jamie Ford
    Jean (Woodrow) Powell
    Unknown, Atlanta 12/20/92
    Anthony Swain
    Derry Glenn
    Quincy Favors Taylor
    Lynn Therrett
    David A. Perez
    Michelle Maree
    Rev. John “Gypsy” Prowett
    Chanelle Pickett
    Brandon
    Logan Smith
    Robyn Brown (James Brown)
    Maxwell Confait
    Giuseppe Mandanici
    Marsha P. Johnson
    Alan Fitzgerald Walker
    Jae Stevens
    Stella Essie (Jerome Brent)
    Debra Forte
    Unknown, Madrid, 1997
    Jose Angel Osuna
    Mara Duvouw
    John
    Sigfrilda Shantall
    Pastor Arguelles
    Fitzroy “Jamaica” Green
    Luana (Junior de Silva Lago)
    Chanel Chandler
    Rita Hester
    Unknown Santa Ana, 11/20/88
    Harold Draper
    Richard Goldman
    Monique Rogers
    Jessy Santiago
    Cameron “Tina” Tanner
    Robert Woefel
    Thomas Hall
    Maria “La Conchita”
    Palencia
    Rene “Michelle” Ouellet
    Tasha Dunn
    Terrie Ladwig
    Chrissey (Marvin) Johnson
    Steven Wilson
    Christian Paige
    Vianna Faye Williams
    Johanna Langer
    Unknown Guatemala City, 1997
    Robert H. Jones
    Stacey Estupinian
    Unknown Los Angeles, 1991
    Diane Delia
    Marcela (Sergio Arias)
    Lisa Janna Black
    Janice Ricks
    Dianne Aubert
    Deanna Wilkinson
    Larry Laverne Turner
    Karla (José Alexis) Barrahona
    Mocha Celis
    Shawn Keegan
    Keooudorn Phothisane
    Castro Nova Estabon
    Gracie (James) Detzler
    Felix Abarca
    Nikki
    Jerrell Williams
    Venus Xtravaganza
    Donald Pierce
    Monique (Rufus) Thomas
    Lauryn Paige (Donald Fuller)
    Carlos “Tasha” Santiago
    Lazaro Comesana
    Peggy Santiago
    Carmen Marie Montoya
    Rafael Sanchez Ayala
    Jody Susan Ford
    Steve Dwayne Garcia
    Grayce “Candace” Baxter
    Robert Eads
    William Battles
    Unknown Philadelphia, 1995
    Anna Francisco
    Lynn Montana
    Patrick Calvert
    Gisele Gaga’
    Tarayon Corbitt
    Stephan “Stephanie” Chapman
    Unknown Houston, 2/25/99
    Ashley-Ann Summers (Eric Farrow)
    Cam (Camilla) Lyman
    Chantal Gillade
    Ernest “Ernestine” Murray
    Unknown Oakland, 7/10/95
    Gordon Tuckey
    Regina Haskins
    David F. McLaughlin
    Unknown Bronx, 2/8/92
    Donnie O. Osby
    Larry Venzant
    Leslie Re’Geanne
    Alanna Kella
    Reynaldo “Reyna” Sandoval
    Unknown Washington, D.C., 1/4/82
    Rosando “Crystal” Sanchez-Reyes
    Tracy Thompson
    James “Tatiana” Rivers
    Tara O’Hara
    Ruby Bota
    Philip Robert Filshie
    Daniel A. Castro
    “Midnight” (Kenneth Dale Robinson)
    Christiaan D’Arcy
    Jacqueline Julita Anderson
    David Edward Wigley
    Unknown San Antonio, 03/29/91
    Unknown Akron, 09/17/94
    Emmon Bodfish (Margaret Bodfish)
    Carol Wright
    Unknown San Diego, 6/22/94
    Valerie Hill
    Shannon Elroy Clay
    Derrick “Miss Tess” Hampton
    Unknown Miami, 1984
    Barbara (William) Brodie
    Jean Shelley
    Boushard Fox
    Toni (David) Lowry
    Martine Bohn
    Chiron Collins (Allen Kenneth Byrd)
    Jonathan “Tanya” Streater
    Faustino “Tina” Arroyo
    Diane (Anthony Ellsworth) Carter
    Sherri Ransom
    Tianna (Timothy) Langley
    Steven Hernandez
    Samantha York
    Eduardo Lora Vasallio
    Michelle Byrne
    Juaquin Jiminez
    Linda Williams
    Vernon Sivills
    Maurice E. Murray
    Lim Yeow Chuan
    Jessica (Gerardo) Castillo
    Phyllis Olson
    “Benderella”
    Cortez Morris
    Clyde Massie
    Terry Wilson
    Charles Albert Lizotte
    Felix Benitez
    Terri Williams Moore
    Jane Golden (James Boyd)
    Ramon Baez
    Victor Hugo Castillejos
    Rita Sellers
    Carla Leigh Salazar
    Perry Young
    Unknown Boston, 1979
    Vanessa (Barry) Lane
    Rodney D. Neadeau
    Ali He’shun Forney
    Unknown Santa Ana, 7/10/93
    Dion Webster
    Adele Bailey
    Kevin Freeman
    Pfc. Barry Winchell
    Yancey-Lisa R.
    Yamile (Jorge) Lee
    Barbarella (Joe V.)
    Kareem Washington
    Barretta Williams
    Marvin Ball
    Chareka Keys
    “Tiny” (Robert Howard Gibson)
    Quona R. Clark
    Tacy Raino Ranta
    Lindsey Alexander (Todd Alexander Asay)
    Unknown Dallas, 12/8/99
    Toni Lee
    Alina Marie Barragan
    Christine Chappel
    Jill Seidel
    Delores Mack
    Ihok (Hugo Yonathan)
    Vanesa-Lorena Ledesma (Miguel Angel Ledesma)
    Curdell James III
    Michelle Lynne O’Hara
    Carla Natasha Hunt
    Stephanie Yazum (Frank Yazum)
    Toya Charlton
    Andre Vacarro
    Tyra Henderson
    Amanda Milan
    Julie Birchall
    Unknown New York City, 1975
    Déjà (Dondre) Johnson
    Astrid La Fontaine
    Dayana (Jose Luis Nieves)
    Keith E. Jackson
    Julia Carrizales
    Beverly Lineth
    Dinh Van Vo
    Brandi Houston
    James Jerome Mack
    Ana Melisa Cortez
    Billy Jean Lavette
    Antonio Johnson
    Francisco Javier Luna
    Robert Martin
    Sissy (Charles) Bolden
    F.C. Martinez, Jr.
    Jamie (James) Jackson
    Loni Okaruru
    Joanne Lillecrapp
    Willie Houston
    Alexandra
    Unknown Rome, 9/12/98
    Carlo Enrique Teixeira
    Marzia De Melo Rosa
    Antonio Texera Dos Santos
    Antonia K.
    Terrianne Summers
    Faye Urry
    Bibi Barajas (Hugo Cesar Barajas)
    Marquita (Martin) Johnson
    Michelle Paz
    Unknown Indonesia, 5/17/02
    Gary “Brazon” McMurtry
    Unknown Japan, 2/26/02
    Arlene (Hector) Diaz
    Aretha “ReRe” Scott (Franklin Freeman)
    Alejandro Ray Lucero
    Della Reeves (Lester Childress)
    Amy (Raymond) Soos
    “Walquiria” (aka “Walter”)
    Paola Matos
    Leonela Valero Parra
    Chris Muzett (Eddie Matthews)
    Anjie Milano (Andy Rafael Milano)
    Nicole Lee Anderson (Thomas Shrom)
    Deasha (Gerald Andrews)
    Ukea Davis
    Raymond Nonato
    Stephanie Thomas
    Victor Pachas
    Pilar (Vladimir)
    Ibáñez Carrasco
    Sidnei Geber Aguila
    Daniel Phillip “Danielle” Redding
    Raimundo Rocha Alves
    Nguyen Bui Linh
    Ontwon Curtis
    Ediviana Lopez da Cruez
    Joseph Moran
    Porfiro Mejia
    Gwen Araujo
    Roberta Nizah Morris
    Georgina Matehaere
    Timothy “Cinnamon” Broadus
    Nikki Nicholas
    Danisha Victoria
    Principal Williams
    Chandini, aka Nazir
    Mimi Young
    Tanesha Starr
    Luciana D. S. Oliveira Mazza
    Tamyra Michaels
    Shelby Tracey Tom
    Ze Galhinha
    Ronald Andrew Brown
    Merlinka (Vjeran Miladinovic)
    Amanda Jofré
    Unknown Columbia, 03/06/03
    Cinnamon (Kendrick) Perry
    Nireah Johnson
    Brandie Coleman
    Ericka (Erick David) Yáñez
    Jessica Mercado
    Unknown Brazil, 04/02
    Fernanda Covarrubi
    Jorge Rafael Cruz
    Marcelo Cesar Goulart
    Selena Álvarez-Hernández
    Bella Evangelista
    Emonie Kiera Spaulding
    Michael Charles Hurd
    “Amirilis”
    Dayana Valverde
    Rogelio Jiménez Cortez
    Cassandra “Tula” Do
    Enrico Taglialatela
    “Sindy” Cuarda
    Rider Orcero
    Erika Johana
    Lee “China” Zainal
    Adrian Torres de Assuncao
    Stanley Van Dyke Traylor
    Unknown New Zealand, 2/9/04
    Reshae McCauley
    Mickey Ward-El Smith
    Precious Armani
    Unknown India, 6/7/04
    Unknown Puerto Rico, 7/11/04
    Augusto Flores Munoz
    Cedric Thomas
    Pedro Cruz Ramos
    Unknown Puerto Rico, 7/11/04
    Darryl Fearon
    Gennaro Rizzo
    Tony “Delicious” Green
    LeandroÊBispo Estavao
    Rivera Rene
    Divas B
    Joel Robles
    Bella Martinez
    Andre
    Unknown Long Beach, 11/06/04
    Unknown Peru, 11/26/04
    Ryan Shey Hoskie
    Penny Port
    Karlien Carstens
    Felicia Moreno
    Alejandra Galicio
    Luana
    Unknown Argentina, 1/12/05
    Phool Chand Yadav
    C. Hernández
    Unknown Argentina, 2/22/05
    Eddie Chung Chou Lee
    Timothy Blair, Jr.
    Amancio “Delilah” Corrales
    Ashley Nickson
    Robert Binenfeld
    Kasha Blue
    Julio Argueta
    Marisa
    Ronnie Paris, Jr.
    Mylène
    Noleen Jansen
    Irene
    Lisa D.
    Christina Smith
    Kaaseem Adalla Juanda
    Donathyn J. Rodgers
    Unknown Malaysia, 11/11/05